Saturday, September 7, 2013

Why the ups and downs?

You know the story. You are moving toward a goal, and all of a sudden, it all bottoms out.  What's more, this pattern repeats over and over, in many areas of your life.  Why?  The answer may be clearer than you think.

What do you think of yourself? Really, no masks.  Do you think you are worthy of the goal you are seeking, whether financial, or a relationship, etc.?  Well, if not, maybe your thermostat is set too low.

Thermostat? Yes, your self-image.  It dictates how high you can fly, how much good you will really accept. More importantly, it will dictate how much you will self-sabotage yourself when things are going well.  The truth is, it doesn't have to be this way.  You can clear the thoughts and feeling that have created a low self-image and create a new one.  You can, really.  Life is not supposed to be painful.  I know this might fly in the face of what some religious paths may teach, and I'm not going to debate the theology of those here. I will say, however, and I stand solidly on this, that that view is false, a deception.  You have a right, a Divine right, to be happy. You do.  Just accepting that fact alone will start you on your way.

Set the intention that you want to finally stop the roller coaster, that you want what you want and deserve to have it.  Then, the clearing needs to start. That is a topic for another post.  

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