Saturday, March 12, 2016

A Background of Modeling in NLP




To model exceptional performance behavior requires observing and laying down the
underlying processes inherent in that behavior. It requires breaking down a complex system or a series of events into chunks small enough to be understood and reproduced. 

What is the purpose of behavior modeling?

The point is to create a useful map or model of the behavior for the purpose of reproducing or copying it by anyone who may want to. By identifying the individual elements that make up the essence of the behavior, in a practical sense a person can reproduce the desired response or outcome. The model must give a description of the necessary thoughts and actions needed to achieve results that are similar.

The development of Neuro-Linguistic Programming came about from the modeling of the thinking processes and behaviors of humans. It starts with learning about and understanding how the brain operates (neuro), and analyzing non-verbal and verbal language patterns (linguistic).Then a sequential set of strategies or programs (programming) teaches how to transfer the skills to others.

Richard Bandler began to model particular language patterns and behaviors that he
observed from Fritz Perls (Gestalt therapy founder) and Virginia Satir (one of the founders of family therapy and systemic therapy), and, later, the founder of the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis, Milton H. Erickson, M.D.

The initial techniques of NLP came out of the language patterns and body gestures of
the very talented and skillful therapists noted by Bandler and also observed by John Grinder, a linguist who later teamed up with Bandler. The “magic” that these exceptional therapists were able to achieve fit into a structure that could be understood, transmitted through communication, and executed by ordinary people, not just the master therapists who originated these triumphs. This became the foundation for NLP.

Grinder observed Bandler at work one day and noted how Bandler was able to influence people with his use of language. Grinder had a sense that something systematic was occuring. Neither could explicitly describe the process. Bandler knew he had somehow picked it up from Perls and Satir. Grinder realized that if Bandler could teach him to do what he (Bandler) was doing, he could then put the process into a formula that could be articulated and copied.

The tools and techniques developed within NLP identify and lay out specific patterns
of human verbal and non-verbal interactions--fundamental characteristics of how people express themselves and behave. One of the most basic objectives of NLP’s use of modeling is to put these observable key behaviors--verbal and non-verbal conduct--into appropriate and actionable steps that produce desired results. 

It is not to distill the modeling process down to one “essential” or “correct” characterization of the cognitive process of any particular individual. Rather, it is to enable us to create a map whereby we can apply in an effective and advantageous way, certain strategies that we’ve modeled. The primary goal is to enable us to be more effective in our interactions and dealings.

The exactness of the map--how closely it follows reality--is less important than how useful it becomes. The modeled strategies may be used to achieve some purpose that is constructive and functional, and it may be similar or different from the initial use of the model.  




John Soriano, MS

NLP Master Practitioner
www.breakfreeeasier.com

Tuesday, March 1, 2016

How Can NLP Benefit Someone in Their Personal Life?




If you’re looking for help in personal development, learning NLP can give you a better understanding of how you function. It will allow you to have more patience with those people around you by giving you tools to respond effectively in any given moment. You will learn skills that will enhance your life and be of great benefit to you.
In the area of education, you can accomplish all your academic goals by learning how to learn best.
We learn that the mind acts like a recording device and processes information through the five senses. Through NLP you can discover which sensory system allows you to best take in information in the most effective way in any given situation.
Many people deal with learning issues. Spelling doesn’t have to be a problem once you shed strategies you may have been taught, that don’t work for you, such as trying to spell phonetically by sounding out words, which requires you to access auditory memory, when you might really be a visual learner and can conquer spelling with ease by recalling a picture of the word spelled correctly in your mind. Learning issues can vanish when you use the right sensory process and strategy for storing information and accessing your memory recall.

Want to be a better, more effective parent?

NLP helps you understand the basic differences between responses of the child’s mind vs. the adult mind. When you approach children from their map of the world, they feel understood and are much more willing to open up and really communicate. Until about age 8, children do not begin to develop the rational (left-brain) thinking of adults. With NLP you learn to pace the emotional world of the child, so that you are able to be in tune with how they think and why they behave as they do. They can grow up confident, self-sufficient and independent, and realize their full potential without having to go through therapy as adults to undo well-meaning but misguided parenting techniques. 

NLP gives you techniques to help you become a better listener and observer which radically enhances your effectiveness in all your relationships, be it with a partner, a child, a friend or a colleague.

If you desire to perform better at sports, mental attitude is of paramount importance whether you are competing in community activities or at higher levels. Your mental attitude is very much involved in what kind of results you achieve--whether positive or negative (and, of course, this applies to all endeavors, not just sports). NLP teaches you
how to put yourself into that optimum state they call “the zone.”

NLP presents methods that are effective and enduring, that enable you to clear the blockages from your past that may have been holding you back. You create the future you want as you begin to move in a positive direction.

You develop strategies for taking total control over your feelings, so that you are
the one in the driver’s seat. You accept responsibility for your feelings and actions at
any given time, and can move your life in the direction you want to go.

 With NLP techniques you can hone your mind into a concentrated focused state or access any resourceful state that you want at any time, allowing the flexibility you need to acheive your desired result.

John Soriano, MS
Certified NLP Master Practitioner

www.breakfreewithease.com